22. Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation

On a Connection between Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation I sometimes wonder what cis people think are the hardest aspects to transitioning. Maybe they think that coming out is the hardest part; maybe it's dealing with discrimination, harassment, and transphobia; maybe it's having to unlearn some habits, and to learn how to be "the real 

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13. Deciding to Transition

What if I…? What if they…? This post is about part of my thought process in deciding to transition. My primary worry in choosing to go ahead with transitioning has always been employment. Trans people are historically drastically unemployed or underemployed, and experience horrible workplace discrimination and harassment. Now, I think that I’m pretty good 

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